S6.03-137 - "Shana" - Say It Right: Names, Meaning, and Respect

Refine your purpose and leadership skills by joining the Intentional Leadership Network:  https://www.intentionalleadernetwork.com/a/2148165226/4EW66BNT Follow Shana on Instagram: @rhymeswith__babynames EPISODE DESCRIPTION A baby name consultant and former tech manager talks through what a name actually does in real life: how much the dictionary meaning matters, why some parents cross a name off the list the moment they learn its definition, and what it feels like when people you work with every day never bother to learn how to say your name. You will hear how one name can carry Hebrew, Irish, and Gaelic roots at the same time, how the Social Security name database is used to research popularity and spelling variants, and how to find something useful in a name whose meaning sounds negative in English. The conversation closes with why names change in the Bible and what those changes are meant to signal. Key Takeaways One first name can carry several unrelated origins, and Shana traces to Hebrew, Irish, and Gaelic roots meaning lily, wise or old river, and God is gracious. Meaning is a deciding factor for many parents, and a beautiful sounding name gets cut from the list once a definition like bitter shows up. Mispronunciation from a stranger rarely stings, but repeated mispronunciation from a colleague reads as a lack of effort rather than an honest mistake. Putting a phonetic spelling in a work profile or chat bio does not guarantee people will use it, so correcting others out loud and repeatedly is usually what actually works. Legally respelling a name for easier pronunciation is an option, but the original spelling is often tied to family history and no longer looks right once changed. Children who grow up hearing what their name means may lean into those traits, while people who never heard the meaning are unlikely to be shaped by it. A name that looks negative in English often has more to it, since dark can suggest depth and bitter can work as a reminder of what to avoid becoming. Baby name consulting combines personal taste with data, using decades of naming records to check popularity, spelling variants, and trends over time. Growing up with an unusual name can become a core part of identity and shape lifelong interests, including a career built around names. Name changes in scripture, such as Sarai to Sarah and Saul to Paul, mark a transformation significant enough that the old name no longer fits the person. Timestamps 00:28 – Leaving a tech career to consult on baby names 01:24 – Knowing only part of your own name's meaning 01:43 – Hebrew, Irish, and Gaelic roots behind one name 02:39 – Why parents reject names that mean bitter 03:22 – Using naming data to research popularity and spelling 05:59 – When repeated mispronunciation starts to feel disrespectful 07:32 – Why saying a name correctly signals respect at work 08:26 – Choosing a replacement name that still fits you 11:11 – Whether a name's meaning influences how you act 12:19 – What name changes in the Bible represent Keywords name meaning, baby name consultant, mispronounced name at work, how to pronounce someone's name, choosing a baby name, names and identity, baby name data, biblical name changes, unique baby names, name pronunciation etiquette