S6 Ep20: It Doesn't Have to Be That Way

The hoes chat about risk mitigation via quarantine pods and secksbuddies, unpacking ableism in your sex life, our good ol friend ethical non-monogamy, a reminder that you are not your trauma, some walks down memory lane, PLUS we fucked up ya’ll and we’re gonna address it and apologize.Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/qY1oeeL7xrg Fuck That (Currents Events): How global governments are (or aren’t) advising citizens on engaging in partnered sex during the pandemic. Plus we discuss the move by some folks to opt into Quaranteams, pods, and seksbuddies. And we talk about harm mitigation and risky ‘rona behavior. Fuck Me (Our Lives): What’s it like making 200 episodes of your fave podcast about sex, love and dating?! Find out here. Fuck You (Your Lives): A listener calls out our usage of language and ideas that are harmful to survivors and perpetuate rape culture. We read the letter, apologize and respond. Love & Light to our Hoes of the Week!Hoe(s) of the Week: @ImSoLoveLee, Ajeeezy (AJeezy), Nikita (La fan Nikita), Philip (PhilipDelphia), Rhamah (Ray. Shout out to Ash!), Kristen (Bella), Shavauna (MonsterMash) HASHTAGSUse #InnerHoeUprising and #Podin to keep up with this conversation on social media and let others know that you are listening. CONTENT WARNING(S)Suicide Attempt 52:39 - 54:30Harmful Language especially for survivors of assault: 1:12:42 -1:23:40RELEVANT LINKS AND NOTESSlate Article: https://slate.com/human-interest/2020/05/why-i-decided-to-join-a-quarantine-bubble-and-you-should-too.html WEBSITE InnerHoeUprising.com PAY A HOE Paypal.me/innerhoe https://www.patreon.com/InnerHoeUprising WRITE IN [email protected] IN VOICE MAIL(404) 491-9158SPEAKING GIGSWanna pay us to VIRTUALLY speak at your school or conference about sex positivity, black feminism, or the other kinds of topics we discuss on this show?  We’d love to! To book us, send us a line to [email protected] MUSICLove and light to the artists who have lent their music to the pod!  Our opening is a remix of “Queen S%!T” by SheReal (https://soundcloud.com/shereal/04-queen-s-t-produced-by) We also play “Party on the Weekend" by King Kam X DVRKAMBR, “Keeping it Cool Witchu” by Chhoti Maa, "Chandelier" Dramangar and “Yeah Yeah” wavghxst (https://twitter.com/wavghxst).ENGINEERING AND EDITING BY Still social distancing SamSOCIAL MEDIAJoin our Facebook Group! “Inner Hoe Uprising CUMmunity” https://bit.ly/2NfFH3A Inner Hoe Uprising| IG: @InnerHoeUprising | Twitter: @InnerHoeUprisin Akua | IG & Twitter: @heyyakuagirl Rebecca| IG @thedarkestimeline | Twitter: @existncrysis |Tumblr: @noneedtomakebeleiveSam | IG & Twitter: @slamridd  Travel IG: @carmensamdiegoRob | IG: @pubiscus Art IG: @vanta.blaq | Twitter: @RobbyTheeBody| OnlyFans: https://onlyfans.com/bbyboirob  #black #woman #sex #feminist #womanist #Comedy #raunchy #queer #pride #quiltbang #sexuality #lgbtq #lgbt #funny #agender #transgender #nonmonagamy #feminism #intersectionalfeminism #kink #porn #BDSM #dating #love #relationships #blackwomen #blackpeople #podcast #sexualwellness #sexualhealth