S9 Ep39: Should I Tell My Ex I'm Filing or Just Have Them Served?

#ChooseGoldman Deciding whether to warn your spouse about a divorce filing or serve them unexpectedly depends heavily on your safety and their likely reaction. While being open can sometimes reduce drama, giving advanced notice might backfire and cause unnecessary conflict before the process begins. • There is no "cookie-cutter" answer; giving notice can either de-escalate drama or simply buy you a "week of misery" depending on the person. • Giving advanced notice often leads to harassment, guilt-tripping, or family pressure before the legal process even starts. • You are the expert on your spouse's behavior and are better equipped than your lawyer to predict if they will negotiate peacefully or retaliate. • Always prioritize safety; if there is a risk of violence or extreme emotional abuse, surprise service is usually the safer strategy. • Consulting with an attorney is essential to determine the best strategic approach based on your specific relationship dynamics. 📞 (248) 590-6600 Call/Text 📅 For a Complimentary Phone Case Evaluation: https://app.acuityscheduling.com/schedule.php?owner=17105687&appointmentType=18529428 Click here to watch the video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=v9dGo6fQDzE For more information: https://akivagoldman.com/michigan-divorce-lawyer ⬇️ Download Divorce & Custody Survival Guide. Click here: https://akivagoldman.com/free-legal-ebook/ For additional information, watch these videos: Should I Tell My Spouse I Am Going To File For Divorce - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=v9dGo6fQDzE Can I Divorce My Spouse Without Them Knowing - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UIVMJ6HiRUA Visit us at ChooseGoldman.com #Goldmanandassociateslawfirm #ChooseGoldman #ChooseGoldmanLaw #MichiganDivorce #DivorceStrategy #FamilyLaw #DivorceFiling #SafetyFirst