Safeguards for men in LTRs and Marriages/ most men aren’t your ally

It’s very often you’ll hear women admit to a wife who works that she should have a secret bank account, hidden apps on her phone and “backup dude” Incase of divorce. No one covers what a man can and should do in this situation! I’ve got some suggestions. Also most men ain’t shit they really aren’t so don’t be so trusting with all your information