Same Loss, Same Guilt, Same Impossible Truth | Rachael Goldfarb & Eric Pachman

Rachel Goldfarb and Eric Pachman meet for the first time on Just Press Record in an extraordinary conversation about grief, awareness, and reclaiming soulfulness. Matt Zeigler brings these two together—each transformed by loss and purpose—to explore how we find meaning, reconnect with our humanity, and turn pain into growth. From policy and data to parenting and purpose, this episode is a raw, thoughtful journey through how awareness heals and connection grounds us.Topics covered:• Eric’s path from drug pricing reform to data visualization and awareness• Rachel’s journey through public service, motherhood, and redefining the Chief of Staff role• How grief and loss became catalysts for both guests’ personal and professional transformation• Reclaiming “soulfulness” in an increasingly divided and digital world• The connection between awareness, empathy, and leadership• Why we need to hold our beliefs lightly and focus on human connection• Finding hope, meaning, and purpose through service and presenceTimestamps:00:00 Introduction and setup00:30 Guilt, gratitude, and loss01:30 Defining soulfulness and awareness03:00 Matt’s introductions: Eric Pachman and Rachel Goldfarb07:00 Eric’s background in data visualization and healthcare reform11:00 Rachel’s background in policy, the White House, and the CFPB15:00 The 46Brooklyn story and connecting data to change20:00 Rachel’s experiences at the Gates Foundation and loss of her mother25:00 Shared stories of grief and transformation35:00 Awareness, choice, and meaning after loss43:00 Reclaiming soulfulness and the impact of technology on empathy50:00 The role of nuance, awareness, and understanding in leadership58:00 Balancing awareness with mental health and media overload01:06:00 Channeling energy into positive impact and community01:12:00 Final reflections on meaning, awareness, and connection