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This is a book about empowerment.  It’s about finding yourself within the rubble. -Sarah Elizabeth Sarah grew up on a dirt road in rural Maine in a farmhouse built in 1770…an idyllic childhood until it completely disappeared when her parents divorced when she was in high school and her family as she knew it, fell apart.  “ As a young woman, the image of the white picket fence became a mission for me. I was convinced that I could build a life of control and stability.” Sarah and her husband were both products of divorce, and were determined not to allow what happened to them happen to their children:  “ Our marriage didn’t work, but our family very much does.” Sarah found herself saying yes to everything and only feeling valuable when she said yes to others. It’s one thing to write a book, it’s another thing to put it out there for the world to read. The biggest source of joy is hearing from women who have read the book.  Women and men have said that they felt like they are no longer alone on their own journeys. A divorce is the death of a family.  Originally, Sarah wanted to be an “author, an architect and a world traveler” but after her parent’s divorce, when her world was upside down, she decided to become an accountant.  A safe step, a solid future. Once she started writing this book, “the words poured out of me” I think motherhood broke me…in the most beautiful way. When you have children, you realize how NOT in control of your life you are. Sarah would tell her younger self “just slow down. It will be okay. “ : author of When the White Picket Fence is No Longer Enough sarahelizabeth.icu