Say My Name (Right): A Lesson in Microaggressions

In this solo episode of Hot Air, host Joshua gets real about a mispronounced name — yes, the one we all saw — and dives headfirst into what microaggressions actually are, why they matter, and how even the “small stuff” can hurt. From mis-pronouncing Zohran Mamdani’s name to responding poorly when you’re called out (“Hey, chill out!”), Joshua maps out the journey from defensiveness to accountability. We’ll unpack: Why names carry culture, history and identity. Why people reacted so strongly (spoiler: it’s about more than one slip-up). What microaggressions look like across race, culture and the LGBTQ+ community. How to listen and teach better — without shame, without apology-tour fatigue. If you’ve ever thought “it was just a mistake, why are people so triggered?” — this episode is for you. And if you’ve ever been on the receiving end of a “small” comment that felt large — you’re absolutely seen. Tune in, and let’s all try saying each other’s names (and identities) a little more carefully. Watch the full episode on YouTube HERE! Send me a text! Let me know your thoughts on this episode, recommend future topics or just say 'HEY GURL!" 🔥 Subscribe to HOT AIR now—new episodes drop every Tuesday & Friday with unfiltered convos, chaotic stories, and all the queer tea you can handle. 🎧 Don’t miss a moment: Follow on Instagram & TikTok @_hotairpod for behind-the-scenes, memes, and bonus content! Visit: HotAirWithJoshuaRobert.com to submit listener stories, topic suggestions and shop merch!