Saying No Is Not Mean

How many times have we said yes when every part of us was screaming no? Not because we wanted to but because saying no felt mean, selfish, or just too hard. In this episode Marilyn gets honest about her own experience with saying yes to everything, the burnout it created, and the moment she realized that saying yes to the wrong things was actually doing everyone a disservice including herself.This episode is a real and honest conversation about why saying no is not mean. It is actually one of the most responsible and respectful things we can do. For ourselves, for the people we love, and for the opportunities and clients that deserve our very best.Because saying no to the things that do not fit is exactly how we make room for the things that do.In this episode:Why so many of us struggle to say no and where that guilt actually comes fromHow saying yes to the wrong things in business costs everyone involved not just usWhy our loved ones deserve our real presence not our exhausted obligatory oneThe power of not right now as a kind and honest alternative to yesHow to use the bubble method when the guilt of saying no feels overwhelmingFive practical tools for saying no with confidence and without apologyThis week's takeaway: Before saying yes ask yourself one honest question. Can I show up fully for this? If the answer is no then no is a complete sentence. And not right now is a kind and honest one. Saying no to the wrong things is how we protect our best yes.Connect with Marilyn: www.MarilynBarker.com#PutItInABubble #MentalHealth #SayingNo #Boundaries #BurnoutRecovery #YouAreAllowed #MindsetShift #MentalWellness #SelfRespect #PersonalGrowth #NotRightNow #ProtectYourEnergy #EmotionalHealth #ShowUpFully #GrowthMindset