Season 2 Episode #23 Guest With Aricoyote

Send us Fan MailEPISODE 23 — All There Is With KiritoTitle: “Aricoyote: music, mind & making it all work”Welcome to Episode 23 of Season 2. This one? It’s special. It’s actually the longest episode I’ve ever recorded — almost 3 hours — and I swear, every minute is worth it.My guest this time is Ari, and she does it all. She’s the singer for two bands — Deep Sea Vincents and Deaf__Cats, studies psychology with the goal of becoming a therapist, works full-time at a coffee company (she knows her beans, trust me), and DJs on the side. Like… how??We started with her childhood — school, sports, being that quiet, observant kid — and how all of that somehow led her to music. She told me when and why she started singing, and how she balances her creativity with the chaos of adult life. Her routine is packed, but she somehow finds time to make space for herself, her art, and her mind.We also got into what it feels like to be on stage — performing in front of hundreds or thousands of people — and what that kind of visibility does to your soul. She shared her take on happiness, “me time,” feeling alive, and how she makes it all mean something.Ari gave me a full breakdown of her real daily routine. No fake “I wake up at 5 AM” BS. Just raw, honest, this-is-what-it’s-really-like when you’re juggling music, work, mental health, and trying to stay inspired in a world that moves way too fast.We got into how she makes time for herself, how she keeps up with creativity, and how it actually feels being a solo artist inside two completely different bands. Like… how do you even have the capacity to do all that and still show up as yourself?Since it’s Mental Health Awareness Month, we dove deep. We talked about anxiety, depression, social burnout, and how studying psychology changes the way she sees people (and herself). She was super honest about the good and bad parts of being someone who feels everything.Then, of course, we touched on love, womanhood, relationships — the “what do women want from men” convo — and why it’s hard out here. We unpacked her thoughts on emotional connection, future partners, and why most men just… aren’t quite it yet. 😅We wrapped with some real talk about society — the lives we want to live vs. the ones we’re told we should. It’s raw, thoughtful, and a little messy in the best way.love, womanhood, and the male gazeWhew… this part got deep. We talked about womanhood, relationships, and why it’s so damn hard to find emotionally intelligent men (like… WHERE are they hiding?). Ari opened up about her family, her friends, and what kind of romantic relationship she actually wants.We asked the big questions:What do women want from men?Why do so many fall short?Can we predict our future partners?And what does it take to feel seen and loved without losing yourself in the process?Spoiler alert: it’s complicated. But it’s also beautiful. And Ari’s perspective? Refreshing as hell.Ari is talented, kind, funny, beautiful, hardworking, and a total multitasker. I admire her so much, and I think you will too.So yeah — get comfy. Sip on something. This episode is a whole experience.If you love it, share it. Send it to a friend. Let it sit with you.Love you.– kirito 🖤Hello Welcome to "All There Is With Kirito"Season 2Every Saturday there’s new episodes with new guests I'll try my best to share my all thoughts, opinions and based on my experiences without any lies.It's your safe place to share something that you always wanted