Seeing Red

I keep seeing red. And for once, that’s a good thing. This week, we’re talking about red cars, blueprints, the stories our brains build before we have all the information—and what happens when reality gives us something we weren’t expecting. Because lately, dating has surprised me. Not with some giant romantic revelation. With little things. Long conversations. Thoughtfulness. Reciprocity. Laughing way too much. Checking my phone because I want to, not because I’m anxiously waiting for an answer. And the increasingly inconvenient realization that… I’m actually enjoying dating. But here’s the problem: I only know my side of the story. So naturally, I asked the engineer. We’re comparing assumptions, expectations, nerves, projections—and eventually, what happened when the blueprint in our heads finally meets reality. Because sometimes what you expect to find changes what you notice. And sometimes, when you start looking for red cars… you realize they’ve been everywhere. #HerCanary #FromSilenceToSong #WomensCommunity #WomenSupportingWomen #WomensVoicesWebsite: hercanary.com Instagram: @her.canary TikTok: @hercanary YouTube: HerCanaryEmail: [email protected]