Seen, Heard, and Valued — Parenting with Presence

What every child longs for is to be seen, heard, and valued. Troy and Brenda Renter know this firsthand—Brenda as a high school student navigator and longtime behavioral specialist, and Troy as a lead pastor, licensed therapist, and district KidMin director. In their conversation with Elly Marroquin, they share how parents can build lasting trust and attachment with their kids by slowing down, listening deeply, and being present. From reframing "wild" as "energetic" to creating simple moments of connection, the Renters remind us that it's not about perfection or quantity of time, but the quality of presence that helps children of every age feel secure, understood, and loved. ---------------------------------------------- TIME STAMPS: 00:00:00 Welcome & Meet Troy & Brenda Renter 00:07:52 Why Connection Matters Most in Parenting 00:10:57 How Parents Can Validate and Affirm Their Kids 00:18:56 Finding Time to Connect as a Single Parent 00:19:58 Sunshine Circles: Simple Activities to Build Stronger Bonds 00:25:58 Biblical Examples of Connection and Relationship 00:28:20 Parenting Priorities: "Jesus and Java Are My Joy" 00:33:35 Staying Connected with Adult Children 00:39:17 The Power of Encouraging Notes and Handwritten Cards 00:40:31 Final Words of Wisdom for Deeper Connectio            ---------------------------------------------- Follow Ignite Parenting Instagram | @Ignite.Parenting Facebook | Ignite Parenting Website | www.igniteparenting.com