Self-Healing Insights: When Growth Feels Like It Costs You Love (Jane | Ep. 296)

In this episode of Heal Yourself, Change Your Life®, Brandy Gillmore shares powerful insights from a session with Jane, a loving, ambitious woman who has been living with heart-related challenges, including arrhythmia and SVT, along with autoimmune issues. As Brandy began working with Jane, a deeply emotional and counterintuitive pattern came into focus: a long-held feeling that as Jane grew, became independent, and moved forward in life, she lost love—especially from her mother. Although her mother was still present in her life, Jane had carried years of hurt, yearning, and a feeling of being unloved that quietly shaped how safe it felt to grow and expand. This created an internal conflict. On one hand, Jane is driven, independent, and full of goals. On the other, there was a deep emotional association that growing, succeeding, or moving forward meant losing love and connection. That push-pull dynamic—wanting to move forward while feeling it isn't safe to do so—can create powerful internal stress and show up as health challenges that hold a person back. Brandy also highlights how Jane's strong tendency to "push through" life became another key factor. While pushing through may work in many areas, heart-related symptoms aren't something the body allows you to override. Instead, they require listening, slowing down, and addressing what's happening beneath the surface. This episode offers eye-opening insight into how emotional associations around love, growth, and independence can quietly influence health, healing, and forward movement in life. Brandy explains why real change doesn't come from forcing yourself forward—but from helping the mind feel that growth, expansion, and healing are safe and supported. As always, if you'd like to listen to the full live self-healing session where Brandy works directly with the volunteer—or if you'd like a deeper understanding of mind-body healing—you'll find the links below in the resources. And if this episode touched your heart or opened your mind, please take a moment to hit the share button and share it with someone you love. → Continue Your Self-Healing Journey Listen to the Full Volunteer Self-Healing Session Click here to access today's self-healing session as Brandy Gillmore works directly with Jane Free Mind-Body Healing Training If you'd like a deeper understanding of mind-body healing and how self-healing works: Click here to join the FREE training. Brandy Gillmore's Mind-Body Healing: Scientific Research If you'd like scientific research on mind-body healing, you can view Brandy Gillmore's work published in a Medical Journal. Personal Empowerment and Self-Healing Courses If you're ready to heal yourself and change your life: Click here to explore our GIFT Mind-Body Healing™ and the GIFT Method™ Courses and GIFT Workshops. Connect With Brandy Follow Brandy on Facebook Follow Brandy on Instagram Questions? Discover more at https://brandygillmore.com or email [email protected]   Important Note: This podcast is for educational and informational purposes only and is not a replacement for medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Please continue to consult your doctor or qualified healthcare provider as recommended. Click here to view our full disclaimer- https://brandygillmore.com/terms/. © Brandy Gillmore / Human Potential Revolution, Inc. All Rights Reserved. This podcast and all related content are provided solely for personal, noncommercial use. No portion may be copied, recorded, transcribed, closely paraphrased, adapted, repackaged, distributed, taught, or used to create or support any course, coaching program, training, certification, product, service, or derivative content without prior written permission. This content may not be uploaded to, entered into, stored in, used by, or incorporated into any artificial-intelligence, machine-learning, voice-cloning, digital-replica, data-training, or related system. By accessing, listening to, viewing, downloading, or otherwise using this content, you agree to our Intellectual Property and Content Use Terms. If you do not agree, do not access or use the content. Full Terms: https://brandygillmore.com/content-terms  Permissions: [email protected]