Sensuality, Arousal, and Why You Should Never Say I’m Not In The Mood Ever Again | Your Sex and Love Questions Answered

Do you feel like everyone is getting laid but you? Or like if you just knew how to do that thing, you would be able to keep your partner engaged in hot and sexy time? Maybe your partner can’t seem to keep their hands off of you but you secretly find this exhausting or even overwhelming… Well, your secret is safe with me but I must remind you that navigating how we approach the expression of our sexual energy is a journey that is unique to every individual. Regardless of how society may make it seem, there is no universal blueprint (surprise!). One thing is for sure though, it's nearly impossible to get in the mood, let alone stay in the mood when we are constantly on different pages with our partners because of mismatched desires around sensuality and expressions of sexuality.   In today’s episode, I invite you and your sweetie to reconnect by celebrating National Bowling Day and National Book Lovers Day. I go on to unpack the complicated topic of Sensuality as the third side of the Passion Triangle as I continue to answer your most frequently asked love and sex questions.   Find out how you can rediscover the sacred delight of basking in your own magnetic Sensuality and listen in to hear my answers to Deandra and Dr. T’s questions: "I have a high sex drive that often leaves me disappointed because of my husband's avoidance of sex and erection difficulty - What do I do?" and "How do I work through my ambivalent feelings around sex with my husband because of sexual trauma from a past relationship?"  In This Episode, You Will Learn:   This Tuesday, August 8th, get your best balls and go bowling with your sweetheart for National Bowling Day (3:53)  This Wednesday, August 9th, read aloud the most erotic story you can find to your lover for National Book Lovers Day (5:51)  The third side of the passion triangle: Sensuality (6:13)  How Deanna and Dr. T’s questions are two sides of the same coin (7:17)  My answer to Deanna's and Dr. T's questions (10:54)  It's important that we create arousal for ourselves before we begin attempting to create arousal with our partners (18:56)  This week's LoveByte (24:21)   Interested in the 2023 session of my Become Passion 12-week online immersion program for couples? Learn more and get on the waitlist to be notified HERE! Email [email protected] your most burning love & sex questions—you could hear them answered on air! Download the Great Summer Relationship Reconnect Game Card HERE  Follow  @drcherylfraser on IG to get more Make Your Lovelife a Hobby challenges Let’s Connect!   Instagram Website - Sign up for Weekly LoveBytes here  Facebook Page   Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.