Sex and Love: Addressing the Intimacy Recession (with Gwendolyn Dolske)

In this episode, Janice and her guest Gwendolyn Dolske (philosophy professor and host of the Good Is In The Details Podcast) discuss the current "intimacy recession" among young people that is not only keeping individuals from experiencing pleasureful sex, but also placing them in risky situations. They share about their own experiences of learning how to bring more intimacy into their relationships and discovering what turns them on, from erotic novels to BDSM. And they talk about the harmful impacts of denying our young people nuanced sex education and open, honest conversations about sex and intimacy. This episode covers:What is philosophy and how does it shape our lives?Gwendolyn’s philosophy course on sex and love The current sex and intimacy “recession” among young peopleWhat’s missing: knowing our own bodies and pleasure firstThe taboo of masturbation for girlsGwendolyn’s personal path to discovering intimacy and pleasureful sexThe disconnect between how young men behave vs. how they really feel about intimacyThe phenomenon of young women giving sexual favors just to end a dateHow men are also harmed living in a heterosexual, mysognistic cultureHow BDSM can give people the space to explore different sides of their sexuality, including submissiveness for menHow consent and open conversations actually enhance your sex lifeWhat Gwendolyn has learned as a professor from her studentsWhat gives Gwendolyn hope about the younger generations How to connect with GwendolynRate & review the podcast:Apple PodcastsPodchasersSpotifywww.TheSoulsWorkPodcast.comConnect with Gwendolyn Dolske:Instagram: @goodisinthedetailspod  Instagram: @profdolske Podcast: Good Is In The Details Podcast  Listen to all The Soul's Work Podcast episodes: www.thesoulsworkpodcast.comResources mentioned in this episode:The Second Sex, Simone de BeauvoirThe Symposium, Plato“WHY ARE YOUNG PEOPLE HAVING SO LITTLE SEX?” (Kate Julian, The Atlantic)"How To Be A FemDom" (Good Is In The Details Podcast)Overthink Podcast  “What young women believe about their own sexual pleasure” (Peggy Ornstein, TEDWomen 2016)  For Brown Girls with Sharp Edges and Tender Hearts: A Love Letter to Women of Color (Prisca Dorcas Mojica Rodriguez)  ----- Janice is a therapist-in-training and not licensed to work with clients.DISCLAIMER: The content in the podcast and on this webpage is not intended to constitute or be a substitute for working with a professional mental health or healing practitioner.