SEX! - Everybody does it!

What happens to intimacy when a relationship lasts long enough to have chapters and inside jokes that need footnotes?In this episode Erwin and Mau talk honestly (and with plenty of humour) about desire, emotional connection, and how intimacy actually changes when you’ve been together for decades not just a few very enthusiastic years.They unpack why talking about intimacy can feel awkward (thanks, upbringing), how culture and shame sneak into our relationships, and why emotional safety often becomes far more attractive than abs over time. From navigating shifting dynamics in their 20s, 30s, and now 40s, to setting boundaries, renegotiating agreements, and learning not to “fix” each other (still working on that), this episode keeps it real.There’s also talk of confidence, wellbeing, jealousy, comparison, and the small, unglamorous but powerful choices that help couples reconnect when life gets busy and energy levels are… selective.The episode wraps up with a playful “Yay or Nay” game — because deep conversations are better when you’re allowed to laugh at yourselves too.Honest, relatable, and refreshingly human, this episode is for anyone in or curious about long‑term love, evolving desire, and relationships that grow up with you.#queerrelationships, #LGBTQ+ podcast, #long‑termlove, #emotionalintimacy, #communication in #relationships, #gaycouples & #relationshipgrowth