EPISODE · May 12, 2026 · 13 MIN
Sexting, Snapchat, and Sending Nudes
from Permission To Desire: Relationships, Sex, Love, and Liberation · host Brian G. Murphy
Y'all are thirsty—and I say that with full love and zero judgment.I've gotten a lot of questions lately about whether it's OK to send sexy pics when you're getting to know someone, and honestly, my default answer is always "you do you, boo." But there's more to it than that, so in this episode I'm diving into the when, why, and how of Snapchat, sexting, and sending nudes—whether you're single, dating, or already coupled up.In this episode:Why "who would buy the cow when the milk is free" is absolute BS—and what your sexuality actually is (and isn't)Questions to ask yourself before hitting sendHow to lead with the energy you're actually looking for (whether that's hot sex, a real connection, or both)A word of caution if you're in a relationshipHow to bring that off-the-charts erotic charge back with a long-term partnerResources mentioned:Commitment Clarity Checklist (free download): thisisbgm.com/clarityRelationshift group coaching program, starting June 15: thisisbgm.com/groupEnrollment for Relationshift is sold out and now closed. Want early access when enrollment opens again later this summer? Add your name to the waitlist at thisisbgm.com/groupIf you are reading this, I have 2 private coaching spots opening up later in June 2026. Learn more about how coaching can support you in building a fuller, more honest, more alive erotic life and relationship and apply for a spot at https://thisisbgm.com/private-coaching/Connect with Brian on Instagram: @ThisIsBGM (Feel free to DM with any questions you have!)
What this episode covers
Y'all are thirsty—and I say that with full love and zero judgment.I've gotten a lot of questions lately about whether it's OK to send sexy pics when you're getting to know someone, and honestly, my default answer is always "you do you, boo." But there's more to it than that, so in this episode I'm diving into the when, why, and how of Snapchat, sexting, and sending nudes—whether you're single, dating, or already coupled up.In this episode:Why "who would buy the cow when the milk is free" is absolute BS—and what your sexuality actually is (and isn't)Questions to ask yourself before hitting sendHow to lead with the energy you're actually looking for (whether that's hot sex, a real connection, or both)A word of caution if you're in a relationshipHow to bring that off-the-charts erotic charge back with a long-term partnerResources mentioned:Commitment Clarity Checklist (free download): thisisbgm.com/clarityRelationshift group coaching program, starting June 15: thisisbgm.com/groupEnrollment for Relationshift is sold out and now closed. Want early access when enrollment opens again later this summer? Add your name to the waitlist at thisisbgm.com/groupIf you are reading this, I have 2 private coaching spots opening up later in June 2026. Learn more about how coaching can support you in building a fuller, more honest, more alive erotic life and relationship and apply for a spot at https://thisisbgm.com/private-coaching/Connect with Brian on Instagram: @ThisIsBGM (Feel free to DM with any questions you have!)
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