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EPISODE · Jan 26, 2026 · 56 MIN

Sexual Wellness, Performance Anxiety & Pleasure Products for Better Sex in the Swinger Lifestyle (Promescent CEO)

from Wanderlust Swingers - A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle Stories · host Cate and Darrell

Wanderlust Swingers – A Swinger Podcast & Lifestyle Stories EP213 – Sexual Wellness, Performance Anxiety & Pleasure Products for Better Sex in the Swinger Lifestyle (Promescent CEO) Sex toys, delay sprays, arousal gels, performance anxiety, libido, orgasms, and why using sexual wellness products does not mean you’re “bad in bed.” In this episode, we’re joined by Jeff Abraham, CEO of Promescent, one of the world’s most trusted sexual wellness brands, to talk about the real science, real psychology, and real-world use of pleasure products — especially in the swinger and non-monogamous lifestyle.   Premature Ejaculation Spray, Delay Wipes, Arousal Gels & Sexual Wellness Products with Promescent Get 15% off using code wanderlust26 https://www.promescent.com/wanderlust26   We dive deep into premature ejaculation, the arousal gap, performance pressure, female pleasure, and why the best lovers in the world use tools. We also explore the incredible backstory of Promescent, including clinical trials, urologists, turning down a $30M pharma buyout, and why Jeff was determined to keep these products available next to condoms, not behind a prescription counter. If you’ve ever wondered: - Is using a delay spray cheating? - Is performance anxiety mental or physical? - Do arousal gels actually work? - What should be in a swinger’s hoe-on-the-go bag? - How do you last longer with multiple partners?   In This Episode - The biggest myths about sexual wellness products and what they really mean - Why the best lovers in the world use performance and pleasure aids - The real science behind premature ejaculation (and why it’s mostly physiological) - The “arousal gap” and why most women need more time than most men - Performance anxiety vs physical dysfunction — which is more common? - The true story of turning down a $30M pharma acquisition - How Promescent went from one product to 20,000+ retail stores (Target, Walgreens, CVS, etc.) - Spray vs wipes: which works best and when to use each - How long delay spray lasts and how to reapply in multi-partner scenarios - What swingers should actually carry in their hoe-on-the-go bag - Female pleasure, arousal gels, blood flow, and why warming/buzzing gels work   Useful Links from This Episode: Join us at a Swingers Event: https://wanderlustswingers.com/swingers-events/ Wanderlust Swingers Website: https://wanderlustswingers.com/ Patreon – Event photos, behind-the-scenes & extra content: https://www.patreon.com/SwingingDownunder Join SDC – Find swingers near you & explore events: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=32122   Sponsors Comprehensive STI testing (USA Only) with STD Hero Get 10% off, use code Libertine https://mybls.com/Libertine Premature Ejaculation Spray, Delay Wipes, Arousal Gels & Sexual Wellness Products with Promescent Get 15% off using code wanderlust26 https://www.promescent.com/wanderlust26   Sexual Wellness, Performance Anxiety, Premature Ejaculation, Delay Spray, Pleasure Products, Swingers, Swinger Podcast, Better Sex, Non-Monogamy, Open Relationships, Lifestyle Sex, Arousal Gel, Female Pleasure, Male Performance, Last Longer in Bed, Sex Toys for Couples, Promescent, Urologist-Backed Sex Products, Sexual Health Podcast, Wanderlust Swingers Podcast

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