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EPISODE · Sep 24, 2025 · 42 MIN

Sexually Curious... What Men Want to Ask A Sex Therapist

from The SmartSex Podcast · host Leslie and Doug Gustafson

"Why do I have a sex drive difference from my partner and what can I do about it? " "Why does my wife never seem to initiate sex?" "What can I do about my anger and frustration around being sexually rejected?" "How come I can't always tell if my wife has had an orgasm, and what can I do?" If you've asked one of these questions, you're not alone! Men are curious and want to have deep, intimate relationships, but sometimes can't find the answers. Doug interviews Leslie in this episode to get to the bottom of some of these questions. There's more!!! Many other topics and questions arose during the talk including: - The difference between men's and women's sexual fantasies and sexual desire. - What is underneath men's sexual frustration and the personal and relational "fix" for it?  - The role of fear of not getting sexual needs met and men's sex "drive". - "Does pornography work as an antidote to a difference in sexual desire?" - How couples can work through and negotiate their sexual life in all its nuances.  - Why men's pursuit of their partners often fails. - The truth about "sexual incompatibility" and what to do. The episode takes an unexpected turn in the latter part of the episode when Doug asks about why affairs happen and if men (and women) can get the passion back after the affair.  This is a lively discussion that will help the listener become Better, Smarter & Sexier! Thank you for listening. Your SUBSCRIBING, sharing and continued listening helps keep this podcast alive all over the world. For products and programs to grow, enhance and transform your life, relationships and intimacy visit  www.leslieGustafson.com/shop Leslie Gustafson can be found on Instagram @LeslieGustafson1

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