Sh*t I'm Not Nice, I'm Scrappy

Ever feel like you’re running out of time, or maybe just not using it the best way? That’s been on my mind a lot lately. This week, I sit down with Aubria Ralph, a phenomenal woman whose relationship with time and planning left me both inspired (so much so that I decided to make this one a video) and a bit in awe. Aubria, who has worn many hats from professor to lawyer, and even author of seven children’s books, shares her unique approach to life, planning, and dreaming big. Our conversation dives deep into the importance of strategic planning, the powerful way Aubria manages her time, and why embracing our accomplishments is essential. Her story is a testament to the fact that with the right mindset, anything is achievable.

Tune in to learn how Aubria navigates her ambitious goals, maintains a scrappy attitude, and balances multiple careers without losing sight of her dreams. If you’ve ever felt stuck or questioned your direction, this episode is packed with practical advice and insights that will help you rethink your relationship with time and planning.

About Aubria Ralph, Founder and CEO of Scrappy Girl Project:

Aubria Ralph is a polymath who recently transitioned from her role as a banking and finance attorney to business owner, consultant and author. Sitting comfortably at the helm, Aubria boasts a wide range of experience including 15+ years in Retail Management, Human Resources and Training and Development, 10 years as a Professor of English, 20+ years community outreach and support through several nonprofit organizations and ~5 years in the legal industry. Aubria’s wealth of knowledge and experience across the marketplace has given her the expertise necessary to advise executive leadership teams and board members at every stage of their career and business development. She works with organizations and senior executives to elevate their leadership strategy and people management by reinforcing their commitment and implementation of transformative wellness programming.

Key Lessons:

* The Power of Strategic Planning: Aubria emphasizes the importance of having a detailed plan and constantly updating it to stay on track.

* Relationship with Time: How Aubria maximizes her 24 hours and uses hyper-focus to accomplish multiple goals.

* Embracing Accomplishments: Understanding the significance of recognizing and celebrating your achievements.

* Trusting Your Track Record: Learning to trust your past experiences and skills when navigating transitions.

* The Scrappy Attitude: How adopting a scrappy, resilient mindset can help you overcome obstacles and achieve your dreams.

Episode Notes:

00:00 Introduction and Podcast Evolution

01:20 Meet Aubria Ralph: A Multifaceted Achiever

03:55 Aubria's Early Aspirations and Family Influence

06:14 Academic Journey and Career Pivot

13:12 Balancing Multiple Roles and Realizations

20:20 The Five-Year Plan and Mentorship

22:49 A Wake-Up Call: Reflecting on Life Goals

24:03 Pursuing a New Path: From Nonprofit to Law School

25:22 The Journey to Law School

26:10 Balancing Ambitions and Life

27:42 Accountability and Public Declarations

30:26 Hyper-Focus and Maximizing Time

39:21 The Scrappy Girl Project: Origins and Vision

43:04 Advice for Navigating Transitions

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