She Feared Spending, Avoided Investing & Saved Obsessively—Until Everything Changed

What happens when a hardcore saver marries a carefree spender? Five years ago, this Money Diarist and her husband were buying their first home, navigating the financial uncertainty of the pandemic, and dreaming about starting a family. Now? They have two kids, a mortgage, and a whole new outlook on money. At first, she thought her savings obsession was keeping them safe. But then came a mortgage, two kids, the high cost of IVF, and a $150K business opportunity—forcing her to rethink everything she thought she knew about money. Ready to binge more relatable, inspiring, and downright juicy money stories? Check out our ultimate Money Diaries playlist. Listen now Join our Facebook Group AKA the ultimate support network for money advice and inspiration. Ask questions, share tips, and celebrate your wins with a like-minded crew of 300,000+. And follow us on Instagram for Q&As, bite-sized tips, daily money inspo... and relatable money memes that just get you.  Acknowledgement of Country By Natarsha Bamblett aka Queen Acknowledgements. The advice shared on She's On The Money is general in nature and does not consider your individual circumstances. She's On The Money exists purely for educational purposes and should not be relied upon to make an investment or financial decision. If you do choose to buy a financial product, read the PDS, TMD and obtain appropriate financial advice tailored towards your needs.  Victoria Devine and She's On The Money are authorised representatives of Money Sherpa PTY LTD ABN - 321649 27708,  AFSL - 451289.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.