"She Gets Angry When I Ask Her to Cook...Kindest Girl in the World, Though!"

Here's who I'm giving REAL dating advice for men to in this episode:- A guy who is surprised most girls in their 30s are married (he needs to lower his accepted age range).- A guy that keeps getting ghosted after making out on dates.- A guy who doesn't understand why he kisses girls that he's on dates with.- A guy with a girlfriend who treats him like dirt, but apparently she's the sweetest person he knows.- A guy who had a perfect situation to open up a conversation with a girl but didn't.Subscribe for more Reddit dating stories, dating advice for men, and dating tips.Message me or support the show: https://linktr.ee/roycalvinDating lessons from this episode:If you never meet single women in real life, stop waiting for organic connections. “Just live your life and someone will come along” is bad dating advice for most men. If women are not naturally appearing in your life, you need to actively approach them instead of hoping your normal routine eventually produces a girlfriend.At 31, dating younger women is usually a better strategy than looking for women your own age. Many women in their early thirties are already married, in serious relationships, or unavailable. If you want a serious girlfriend or future wife, women in the 25 to 29 range are often a better target.If you see a cute woman in public, go talk to her. Cafes, grocery stores, malls, parks, and everyday places can all create opportunities if you actually approach. Do not treat “outright hitting on women” like a bad thing when that is exactly what gets you out of waiting mode.Dating apps are fine if they work, but they should not be your only path to women. If apps get you dates, keep using them, but do not rely on them completely. Real-life approaching gives you more control and creates chances that will never appear through swiping.If girls make out with you and then ghost, you may not be escalating enough. Making out in parks, cars, or outside her place can be a strong signal, but stopping there may kill momentum. If she is making out with you, try to bring her home and move the date toward sex.Going for sex on the date often reduces ghosting. Women who like masculine men usually expect the man to lead physically. If she does not want to go further, she will tell you, but failing to try can make the interaction feel weak or incomplete.Trying to kiss a girl on a date is the right move, even if she says no. If she is cute and you are on a date, you should usually take the chance. A polite rejection is not a disaster; it gives you experience and makes you more comfortable leading in future dates.A girlfriend who turns small mistakes into huge emotional issues is not worth keeping. Getting extremely upset over trash, cooking, food timing, or other minor problems is not normal relationship behavior. If a woman makes you constantly apologize for tiny things, the relationship is probably not worth saving.It is almost always appropriate to approach a woman in real life. Concerts, bars, parks, shared hobbies, and casual public settings are all fair places to start a conversation. You are not ruining her day by saying hello, especially if you can read when she does not want to keep talking.If you freeze around women, you need to practice approaching before you waste more years. The regret of not talking to a woman can last longer than the sting of rejection. Start with easy situations, build reps, and train yourself to act when an opportunity appears.