社交：为什么具备个人魅力的人总容易得到他们想要的

Why do charismatic people easily get what they want in life?Deslyn Rou, My friend knows how to be charismatic, not meAnswered May 31I had a girl friend who I adore a lot.She's beautiful and reallyyy charismatic, everyone seems to know and like her.So I started observing her actions to understand how she does her magic.One time, we were at the administration office sorting out some stuff and the lady in charged was being rude.Naturally, I got irritated and was about to point out her rudeness.But my friend signaled me to calm down and let her deal with it.She answered and talked to the lady patiently, smiled and said thank you.I was so amazed at how she could stay calm despite being talked to like that.Then I reflected back at how she always have so many friends and never had troubles getting things she want, I understand that you treat people the way you want to be treated.You can’t expect people to like you if you're not likeable.