社交：我能如何提高自己的社交技巧

Rod Macedo, I hope to contribute to Quora communityAnswered Apr 18I used to have similar problem before. This is absolutely more common than you think.I just realize the root cause for this problem was not having genuine interest in the other part of the conversation.Most of the time I took the chat initiative talking about something that I like. If the listener didn't engaged with my interests I quickly felt unmotivated to continue the conversation.After realize the root cause my first goal was to change my mindset to get interest in others . It was excruciating at the beginning. Honestly.Couple of seconds and I just found myself changing the subject for something I was used to. And then I got back to initial problem.It took almost a year to really understand that being the center of the attention every time is exhaust, silly and unproductive.After I really got interest in others I found a vivid and fascinating world of experiences, fun and curiosity.Give a try and I bet you will feel less pressured and cool.