社交：有什么暴露一个人本质的小方法

What seemingly strange trait willreveal a lot about a person?SHAPE \* MERGEFORMAT Kyle Phoenix, Writer and student & Instructor at ColumbiaUniversityUpdated Oct 29Tella man no.SHAPE \* MERGEFORMAT Thisseems weird, I know. But I have learned to discern a man’s character simplytell him no.,No,you’re not interested in a date. No, you don’t want to have sex with him. No,you don’t agree with his opinion.Thenwait.Itdoesn’t have to be snarky or sarcastic just a casual no.Immediatelyafter that he will either congenially accept your answer but leave it open toreturning for more discussion, be friendly, be polite.Or…Hewill call you a lesbian, a bitch, a dyke, a fag, fat, dumb, stupid——he willattack you.Thefragile male ego can’t handle no.Thestrong male ego wants you to be your own person, might still want to persuadeyou but doesn’t need to debase you.Tella man no and watch and listen to how he reacts.Worksevery time.