EPISODE · May 10, 2025 · 15 MIN
"She Rejected Me Because I'm a Virgin... More Therapy for Me!"
from You Don’t Know Anything About Women: Dating Stories and Advice · host Roy Calvin | Dating Advice
Here's who I'm giving REAL dating advice for men to in this episode:- A guy who thinks he needs therapy after getting rejected because he's a virgin.- A 24-year-old guy who doesn't like that younger girls are interested in him.- A guy who wants to give up on dating because he's getting no results.- A clueless guy wasting his time going on dates with sexless women in their 40s.- A guy who actually might be okay with his girlfriend staying the night at another guy's house.Subscribe for more Reddit dating stories, dating advice for men, and dating tips.Message me or support the show: https://linktr.ee/roycalvinDating lessons from this episode:If you are an older virgin, do not tell women that you are a virgin. Once you are past the age where virginity is normal, admitting it can make women uncomfortable and hurt your chances. If a woman asks directly, say no and keep the conversation moving.Do not use therapy and mental health as excuses for why you have no dating experience. Focusing on education, career, and mental health does not explain why you never pursued sex or dating. If you want women, you need to stop sounding defeated and start acting.Dating younger women in your twenties is normal. If you are 24 or 25 and getting attention from 19- to 22-year-old women, that is not a serious age gap. Stop feeling guilty and date the women who are actually interested in you.Do not reject younger women just because women your own age are not matching with you. If younger girls like you and women your age do not, use the opportunities you have. A five-year age gap in your twenties is not a problem.Do not give up on dating just because apps and approaches are frustrating. Getting catfished, ghosted, stood up, or ignored happens to many men. Dating is difficult, but quitting at 30 guarantees you get nothing.If women keep ghosting you, look at what you are doing wrong on dates. If almost every woman disappears after meeting or talking to you, something in your presentation, conversation, or behavior may be turning them off. Change the way you date instead of assuming the right woman does not exist.Approaching women in real life requires accepting rejection. Some women will look annoyed, ignore you, or make you feel unwanted. That is part of the process, and it gets easier once you keep approaching and start getting positive reactions too.If women keep saying there is no spark, stop going slow. “No romantic spark” usually means she does not feel attraction. If you are dating adult women, especially women in their forties, do not waste time taking things slowly when you should be escalating.A woman staying at a male friend’s house for the weekend is not acceptable in a relationship. It does not matter how long they have been friends. If she wants to spend the night at another man’s place, tell her no or end the relationship.Setting boundaries is not controlling if you are willing to walk away. You are not forcing her to do anything by saying you will not stay in the relationship if she visits another man overnight. She can make her choice, and you can make yours.
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