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EPISODE · Apr 4, 2025 · 27 MIN

She Who Shifts: Because 'Just Fine' is Not Fine

from What The Shift · host gia lacqua

You’re successful on paper—but inside, you’re stuck, scared, and silently settling. In this episode, Gia sits down with divorce attorney and unapologetic truth-teller Renee Bauer to expose the lie behind “I’m fine” and the deep conditioning that keeps women playing small. From the shame of divorce to the pressure to be the perfect mom, partner, and professional, Renee shares her personal story of breaking free from good girl expectations and rebuilding life on her own damn terms. They dive into: - Why women stay stuck in relationships, careers, and lives that look good but feel hollow - How good girl conditioning fuels people-pleasing, perfectionism, and decision paralysis - Why “just fine” is the most dangerous place to be - What it really takes to choose yourself—even if it means doing it afraid This episode is your wake-up call. Your permission slip. Your reminder that it’s never too late to shift—and you don’t owe anyone an explanation for wanting more. Listen in and ask yourself: What are you done settling for? Connect with Renee: www.familylawyerct.com

You’re successful on paper—but inside, you’re stuck, scared, and silently settling. In this episode, Gia sits down with divorce attorney and unapologetic truth-teller Renee Bauer to expose the lie behind “I’m fine” and the deep conditioning that keeps women playing small. From the shame of divorce to the pressure to be the perfect mom, partner, and professional, Renee shares her personal story of breaking free from good girl expectations and rebuilding life on her own damn terms. They dive into:- Why women stay stuck in relationships, careers, and lives that look good but feel hollow- How good girl conditioning fuels people-pleasing, perfectionism, and decision paralysis- Why “just fine” is the most dangerous place to be- What it really takes to choose yourself—even if it means doing it afraid This episode is your wake-up call. Your permission slip. Your reminder that it’s never too late to shift—and you don’t owe anyone an explanation for wanting more. Listen in and ask yourself: What are you done settling for? Connect with Renee: www.familylawyerct.com

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