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EPISODE · Jan 20, 2026 · 1H

Sheeley - Mens dating coach

from The Amoraea Podcast · host Matt Ng

In this episode, I sit down with Shelly, a men’s dating coach who helps guys understand women, build real confidence, and stop getting wrecked by chronically-online dating advice. We break down why the “6-6-6” myth (height, money, status) is massively oversimplified, what women actually mean when they say they want safety, and how attraction is built through presence, momentum, and calibrated vulnerability.We also talk tactics that actually work:How to start better conversations on dating apps (without boring interview vibes)When to move off the app and how to ask her out with a clear plan (place + day + time)Why “creepy” can be too passive or too aggressiveHow logical, heady men can unlock playfulness and flirt naturallyHow to use real-world reps, rejection practice, and hobbies to build social confidence fastIf you’re a guy who feels stuck, bitter, or invisible in dating, this episode is a reset: less blame, more skill, more freedom.Links:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/shelleybadayosProgram page: https://coachingwithseashells.com/datingwithconfidenceLooking for a intimacy based, video call only dating app that matches you based on typologies? Go to www.amoraea.com

In this episode, I sit down with Shelly, a men’s dating coach who helps guys understand women, build real confidence, and stop getting wrecked by chronically-online dating advice. We break down why the “6-6-6” myth (height, money, status) is massively oversimplified, what women actually mean when they say they want safety, and how attraction is built through presence, momentum, and calibrated vulnerability. We also talk tactics that actually work: How to start better conversations on dating a...

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