Should A Man Take Responsibility For A Child He Never Wanted?

Many people risk RAW SEX knowing they are not ready to have a child, and in some cases that UNPROTECTED SEX leads to a PREGNANCY. In the past the man & woman would often decide to MARRY, but today more will opt to CO-PARENT or decide on ABORTION.  In the event fo the latter, the man may want the child, but if the woman decides to get an ABORTION the man gets no choice in the matter. When the situation is reversed and she wants the child, but he wants her to abort the child the man can still be legally be forced to pay CHILD SUPPORT after the baby is born. Should a woman demand the man to take care of the child, despite his desire not to be in the child's life? What if she stops taking her pill and had the baby in hopes of maintaining a relationship with the man? Should women change their expectations and avoid sex with these types of men? Or should boys and men accept the consequences and responsibilities of their decision to have careless sex?  MENTAL DIALOGUE asking the questions America's afraid to ask. ALL I ASK IS THAT YOU THINK