Should I Leave My 5-Year Relationship Over This? 😭 | Reddit Realness episode artwork

EPISODE · Mar 2, 2026 · 31 MIN

Should I Leave My 5-Year Relationship Over This? 😭 | Reddit Realness

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In this week’s Reddit Realness minisode, Steph & Tia react to a deeply personal relationship dilemma.A 23-year-old woman is questioning whether she should end her five-year relationship after years of sexual struggles, porn addiction history, and feeling unwanted.Her boyfriend says his issues have nothing to do with her — but after repeated moments of him struggling to stay hard and even asking to use porn during intimacy, her self-esteem has completely crumbled.She’s dealt with body image issues, plastic surgery, and an eating disorder in the past — and now she feels like this relationship is undoing years of healing.Is she selfish for wanting to leave?Or is it valid to want to feel desired and confident in your relationship?We unpack porn addiction, sexual performance anxiety, emotional impact, and whether love is enough when attraction feels uncertain.Drop your thoughts in the comments:Would you stay? Or would this be your breaking point?Timestamps:0:00 - Intro 05:25 - Dilemma➡️ Subscribe to our Patreon for exclusive content: https://www.patreon.com/WeJustGotHere☕ Enjoyed the show? Treat the girls to a coffee here: https://buymeacoffee.com/wejustgothere💬 Join the conversation on Twitter using the hashtag #WeJustGotHere📥 Got a dilemma? Send to [email protected]🎧Listen to the podcast: https://wejustgotherepodcast.komi.io📺 Subscribe to our YouTube channel: www.youtube.com/@WeJustGotHerePodcastFollow us on socials: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/wejustgotherepod/TikTok: tiktok.com/@wejustgotherepodcastTwitter: twitter.com/WJGHPodcastSteph’s Socials:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/stephachigbuTwitter: https://twitter.com/StephAchigbuTia’s socials: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tiahoneyroberts/Twitter: https://twitter.com/MsTiaRoberts

In this week’s Reddit Realness minisode, Steph & Tia react to a deeply personal relationship dilemma.A 23-year-old woman is questioning whether she should end her five-year relationship after years of sexual struggles, porn addiction history, and feeling unwanted.Her boyfriend says his issues have nothing to do with her — but after repeated moments of him struggling to stay hard and even asking to use porn during intimacy, her self-esteem has completely crumbled.She’s dealt with body image issues, plastic surgery, and an eating disorder in the past — and now she feels like this relationship is undoing years of healing.Is she selfish for wanting to leave?Or is it valid to want to feel desired and confident in your relationship?We unpack porn addiction, sexual performance anxiety, emotional impact, and whether love is enough when attraction feels uncertain.Drop your thoughts in the comments:Would you stay? Or would this be your breaking point?Timestamps:0:00 - Intro 05:25 - Dilemma➡️ Subscribe to our Patreon for exclusive content: https://www.patreon.com/WeJustGotHere☕ Enjoyed the show? Treat the girls to a coffee here: https://buymeacoffee.com/wejustgothere💬 Join the conversation on Twitter using the hashtag #WeJustGotHere📥 Got a dilemma? Send to [email protected]🎧Listen to the podcast: https://wejustgotherepodcast.komi.io📺 Subscribe to our YouTube channel: www.youtube.com/@WeJustGotHerePodcastFollow us on socials: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/wejustgotherepod/TikTok: tiktok.com/@wejustgotherepodcastTwitter: twitter.com/WJGHPodcastSteph’s Socials:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/stephachigbuTwitter: https://twitter.com/StephAchigbuTia’s socials: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tiahoneyroberts/Twitter: https://twitter.com/MsTiaRoberts

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