Should I Share My Taboo Fantasy with My Partner? Your Love & Sex Questions Answered

“Dr. Cheryl, I have a wild sexual fantasy, should I share it with my partner?” “Dr. Cheryl, how can I explain my dark, lusty sexual energy to my sweetheart?” “Dr. Cheryl, sometimes I have crazy fantasies that I would never do in real life, does that mean I am somehow messed up?” These are all very real and very valid questions that I get all the time. Sometimes, even those of us who would consider ourselves sexually progressive and liberated have trouble accepting what we’ve come to see as taboo.  For the next few weeks, I’m sharing answers to some of the most asked sex and love questions I’ve heard in my career. These are the questions I hear over and over again, regardless of the time or place, answered for you and your honey. Today, I'm answering your questions about sexual taboos, sexual fantasy, and what I call dark sexual energy—and guess what? These are all positive things! In This Episode, You Will Learn: Many folks are way more comfortable early on in the relationship sharing about past lovers, past experiences, and things they'd like to try (02:52) You can bring the fantasy energy—that dark erotic energy—into your lovemaking with your sweetheart without acting it out explicitly if you’re unsure (04:49) The word “libido,” which we think of as being a word that refers to sex drive, actually draws from a Latin root that means life force (05:55) There's nothing wrong with routine sex, but how beautiful is it to shake things up and choose to share some of our deep dark longings with our partner? (07:01) Dark sexual energy isn’t just male territory—everyone’s got a right to it! (10:48) Share a sexual fantasy with your sweetheart. If it’s something you already do, go ahead and act it out (15:16) This week’s LoveByte (17:22) Q&A: I’m ashamed to tell my partner about my erotic fantasies, what should I do? Even if you don’t think your partner feels the same way, think of it this way: every human being has the capacity for deep, lusty, spicy, really hot, triple X sexuality. Maybe you’re just not giving your sweetheart enough credit.   Help! I don’t want to scare my partner by telling them about my deepest sexual fantasies. Remember that it’s possible for you to bring the exploratory erotic energy into your intimate moments without necessarily acting your fantasies out explicitly. I’m a male, does my female partner have the same dark sexual energy I do? Just because your genders are different doesn’t mean your sexual drive is. Women (gay, straight, and trans) are just as likely to have dark erotic fantasies as their male counterparts.  Let’s Connect! About Me Website - Sign up for Weekly LoveBytes here  Facebook Page   Youtube If you want to rate your relationship, take the Passion Quiz Become Passion - Create Love that Lasts A Lifetime immersion program waitlist Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.