Should I Tell My Kids about My Past?

“How much should I tell my kids about my life as a teenager?” Ever wonder about that one? You have if you’re conscious about the mistakes you made during your teenage years and you’re dreading the day one of your kids starts asking those probing questions. Answering with age appropriate honesty is the best policy when kids are considering their own actions and wondering about what you did when you were their age. Our kids have asked us some very frank questions over the years. And, we’ve given them some very frank answers. At times, we’ve been able to espouse the virtues of God’s ways by speaking from the experience of embracing those ways during our own teenage years. At other times, we’ve been able to espouse the virtues of God’s ways by talking openly about the sins of our past and the resulting consequences of those sins. Telling your story with honesty is not only helpful for your kids, but your vulnerability makes you a real and credible person in their eyes.