Should These Guys Teach Marriage? | The Fruit Test

Jordan Peterson, John Delony, Joby Martin, your pastor — should these guys teach marriage? In this episode, John Michael Clark walks through the biblical fruit test Jesus actually told us to use, why "former pastor" is often code for "current wolf," and what Joby Martin's famous "you can be right or you can be married" line gets wrong. You become like the men you let teach you. Most Christian husbands have been quietly absorbing marriage advice from men whose own marriages don't look like the marriage they want. We unpack Pastor Melvin (the loving Christian guy still wrecking marriages), the "we're a team" cliché trap, and why you're not brave if culture says amen.CHAPTERS:00:00 Who Can You Actually Trust to Teach Marriage? 01:00 The Test Jesus Told Us to Use02:10 Why "Former Pastor" Is a Red Flag04:20 The Polygamy DM JM Got on X05:20 What to Watch For When You Meet a Pastor and His Wife06:30 Why You Can't Fake Fun (Kids Always Tell)07:30 The Lie JM's 5-Year-Old Told the Neighbor11:30 Why "Normal" Christian Marriage Is the Trap13:30 Don't Take Marriage Advice From an Average Guy14:30 Meet Pastor Melvin (He Loves Jesus AND Wrecks Marriages)17:30 Why JM Won't Take Marriage Advice From Joby Martin22:30 The "We're a Team" Cliché That Wrecks Husbands26:00 The Conference Ambush Story28:00 What "Partnership" Actually Translates To30:00 You're Not Brave If Culture Says Amen31:50 What You're Actually Aiming For As A Husband33:50 JM's Own Marriage Wake-Up36:00 The Real Job of a Christian Husband (And Why Most Miss It)37:00 Why Husbands Stall Out When They Try to Change--👉 500+ men have stopped guessing and started leading their families with confidence. Now it’s your turn. Find out if The Family Captain coaching is the right fit. Book a free Assessment Call here:  http://www.thefamilycaptain.com/call/pod -- Join our Free Facebook Group on Family Leadership & Sex in Marriage:https://facebook.com/groups/thefamilycaptain—CONNECT WITH THE FAMILY CAPTAINWebsite: https://thefamilycaptain.comFacebook: https://facebook.com/thefamilycaptainInstagram: https://instagram.com/the_family_captainTikTok: https://tiktok.com/@thefamilycaptainYouTube: https://youtube.com/@familycaptainIf you're a Christ-following husband — and you want to be joyfully followed, fully respected, and sexually desired by your wife — this is the place. Welcome to The Family Captain.