Should we talk to our children about the affair?

There is no set rule about whether you should tell your children or not. Each couple, each situation and each family is different. I recommend that as a mother and father, both parents get as much information as they can, then come together and discuss your unique situation and the best course of action for your family. Ideally, you both should decide and agree together on whether or not to talk to your children about the affair. What are your motives for wanting to tell your children about an affair? Be honest with yourself here. If your motive for telling is because you, the betrayed spouse, want sympathy and want your children to know what a dirt-bag their other parent is, DO NOT TELL THEM. If your motive is anything less than to improve their lives, and create more closeness with them by gifting them with truth, you should NOT tell. Listen with Anne, as she discusses this question, bringing her own unique story to life... Yes, you can move beyond the pain and get the life you want. www.beyondaffairs.com 360.306.3367