Should You Always Tell the Truth After an Affair? With Idit Sharoni — S03E12 | Don't Ask, Don't Tell

This week we're covering Season 3, Episode 12 of Sex and the City — the one where Carrie finally tells Aiden about Big. And honestly? It's a lot.I'm joined by Idit Sharoni, licensed marriage and family therapist, founder of Relationship Experts, and host of the podcast Relationships Uncomplicated. Idit specialises in infidelity recovery, and she brings a perspective I genuinely wasn't expecting — because the answer to "should you always tell?" is not what you think it is.We get into:Whether honesty is actually always the best policy in relationshipsWhat it means when your partner has no idea the affair was happening — and what that says about connectionThe difference between "sufferers" and "explorers" after infidelityHow to disclose an affair (and what Carrie absolutely got wrong about timing)Why women who cheat often feel more vindicated than menWhether Carrie ever really had a chance of making it work with AidenWhat wanting to know every detail is really about — and when it hurts more than it helpsWe also cover Miranda's disastrous speed dating lie, Charlotte and Trey's wedding night, and Samantha storming out of Vera Wang. A full episode.Find Idit:🌐 Website: https://iditsharoni.com/💔 It's Okay To Stay (Infidelity Recovery Program): https://infidelityrecovery.iditsharoni.com/🎙️ Relationships Uncomplicated (Podcast): https://iditsharoni.com/category/podcast/📸 Instagram: @therelationshipexperts📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/iditsharonilmft▶️ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@Iditsharonicounseling🔍 Is He Your Mr. Big? Submit your story: https://form.typeform.com/to/T6T0HPpsFollow the pod on IG/TikTok/YouTube/Substack @wefoundtherapypod / I love y'all ❣️