Should You Move? How to Make a Smart Relocation Decision at Midlife and later in life

Have you ever dreamed about moving somewhere new, only to wonder if you're chasing a destination or a feeling?In this episode of Real Estate Connections, Mary Foerster welcomes relocation coach, corporate executive, and Moving For Smarties founder Mariette Frey for a fascinating conversation about the emotional side of moving. Together, they explore why so many people dream about relocating, how to determine whether a move is truly right for you, and the hidden psychological factors that can influence life-changing decisions.After moving 20 times in 24 years across six major U.S. cities, Mariette developed the FRED Framework, a practical decision-making process that helps people evaluate major life transitions through four key pillars: Finances, Robustness, Ecosystem, and Dreams.This conversation goes far beyond real estate. It explores identity, grief, community, purpose, retirement dreams, and how to create a life that aligns with what matters most.In This EpisodeWhy people often chase feelings instead of locationsHow to know if a move is truly right for youThe difference between vacation thinking and relocation thinkingWhy community matters more than many people realizeThe hidden grief involved in movingHow identity shifts during major life transitionsThe FRED Framework for decision makingWhy testing a city before moving can save costly mistakesMoving after retirement and creating a new chapterHow to reduce stress during a relocationThe power of re-parenting yourself during transitionsWhy moving home can sometimes be the best moveMariette Frey is an award-winning corporate executive, certified life coach, podcast host, and relocation expert who has guided thousands of individuals through major life transitions. Known as "the guide people call when they're at a crossroads," Mariette helps people navigate relocation decisions, career changes, lifestyle redesigns, and identity shifts with confidence and clarity.Having personally moved 20 times in 24 years across six major U.S. cities, she developed the FRED Framework, a structured decision-making process that helps people evaluate finances, resilience, community, and long-term dreams before making major life changes.Today, Mariette shares practical tools and emotional intelligence strategies through her Moving For Smarties platform, podcast, coaching programs, and educational resources.Connect with Mariette FreyWebsite Moving For SmartiesInstagram @mariettesonthemoveLinkedIn Mariette Frey LinkedInYouTube Moving For Smarties YouTubeSend us Fan MailThis episode is intended for informational purposes only and does not constitute financial or investment advice.