Sleeping With Your Ex: Closure or Chaos? [S3 E7]

Episode 7 of the Pop Culture Cupid podcast, hosted by Alison and Michal, titled "Sleeping With Your Ex: Closure or Chaos? [S3 E7]" was published on November 18, 2025 and runs 21 minutes.

November 18, 2025 ·21m · Pop Culture Cupid

0:00 / 0:00

Summary

You know it’s not a good idea – but you still want to. You crave the comfort, the familiarity, the pull. But will sleeping with your ex help you move on… or keep you stuck?In this brutally honest episode, we dive into the emotional (and biological) reasons behind why we reach back for what hurt us – and what it actually does to your healing.Sophie’s questions for us: “Why do I still want to sleep with my ex even though the relationship was toxic?”“Will sleeping with my ex help me get closure or make things worse?”“Is it ever okay to sleep with an ex if I know we’re not getting back together?”* “Is it possible to have a casual sexual relationship with my ex without getting emotionally involved again?”If your body misses them but your mind knows better, this episode will help you understand that pull — and how to finally break free from it.Stage: Break-Up.If you enjoyed the discussion, make sure to like, subscribe and follow us on all the platforms: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ & ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠YouTube⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠: @popculturecupid Listen on: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Spotify⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Apple Podcasts⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Support on: Patreon

Episode Description

You know it’s not a good idea – but you still want to. You crave the comfort, the familiarity, the pull. But will sleeping with your ex help you move on… or keep you stuck?

In this brutally honest episode, we dive into the emotional (and biological) reasons behind why we reach back for what hurt us – and what it actually does to your healing.

Sophie’s questions for us:

“Why do I still want to sleep with my ex even though the relationship was toxic?”
“Will sleeping with my ex help me get closure or make things worse?”
“Is it ever okay to sleep with an ex if I know we’re not getting back together?”

* “Is it possible to have a casual sexual relationship with my ex without getting emotionally involved again?”

If your body misses them but your mind knows better, this episode will help you understand that pull — and how to finally break free from it.

Stage: Break-Up.

If you enjoyed the discussion, make sure to like, subscribe and follow us on all the platforms: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ & ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠YouTube⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠: @popculturecupid

Listen on: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Spotify⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Apple Podcasts⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠
Support on: Patreon