Slow Dockets, No Motivation & OC Liars: What's Really Holding Us Back {Ep. 07}

Ever feel stuck in frustration with slow dockets, unproductive colleagues, and deceit in the practice of law? Break free from the chains with this episode, revealing the power of what's really holding you back from enjoying the profession. As a seasoned legal professional, I couldn't resist sharing this valuable insight. This episode is a game-changer! Five Key Takeaways: Control is Yours to Harness: Learn how your belief in control (or lack thereof) shapes your success. The Serenity Prayer takes a secular twist, empowering you to navigate life's challenges with a newfound perspective. The Expectation Game: Delve into the four types of expectations and uncover the real culprit holding you back—unspoken expectations. Explicitly communicate your needs to propel your career forward. Beyond the Bulldog Persona: Challenge the notion that doing the bare minimum is insufficient. Explore the power of resolution outside the courtroom and discover how it enhances your reputation and integrity. The Self-Imposed Chains: Identify and break free from self-imposed expectations. Stop convincing yourself you need to do more and embrace the freedom that comes with aligning with what truly matters. Listening to Your True North: Use the four types of expectations as a lens to identify self-sabotaging patterns. When frustration strikes, revisit this episode, and trust your instincts. You have the power to overcome any obstacle. Compelling Quotes:  "Believing that something is not going your way is most often because you believe you have no control. And you have a lot more control than you think you do." "What's really holding us back from getting what we need and want is our failure to tell people what we need and want." "Listen for where you're getting hung up - and when you hear that reason, I challenge you to do the opposite of whatever it is your mind is trying to convince you is right, and instead, go with what your body feels is right. You got this!"   >>>  Are you looking for clarity and guidance about the next steps in your legal career?  Ready to get away from the toxic focus on the quantity of work in billables, and instead, focus on the quality of your work?  Want to focus on what matters and have a life outside the office?  If any of these were a whole body hell yes, then you're in the right place!  Hi! I'm Sheila Wilkinson, your host, and I'm an attorney, just like you.  I built a multi-million dollar law firm from scratch and when the managing partner refused to uphold his end of the bargain, I walked away from it all. Now, I live on two continents and help other lawyers live their best lives, too!  I still practice law, and I'm also a coach, consultant, and educator. 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