So This Is 40: Wisdom, Wrinkles & Why Are We Like This

In this special birthday episode of Herm’s House, Kristin and Herm hit pause to celebrate a major milestone — Herm turning 40.From childhood memories and early life lessons to fatherhood, marriage, and the moments that shaped who Herm is today, this episode is equal parts reflection, humor, and heart. Kristin walks Herm through the lessons learned along the way, the mistakes that mattered, and the growth that came from becoming a husband, a dad, and a more intentional partner.There’s plenty of laughter, a light roast (because it wouldn’t be a birthday without one), and honest conversation about what 40 really feels like — listening more, failing forward, choosing family, and learning to be deliberate with the life you’re building.This episode is a reminder that milestones aren’t about perfection — they’re about perspective, gratitude, and showing up for the people who matter most.✨ Episode Highlights• Herm reflects on childhood memories and how they shaped his outlook• Lessons learned from relationships, marriage, and fatherhood• Why being deliberate matters more than being perfect• Humor as a survival tool (and love language)• Loyalty, legacy, and the Cowboys (because of course)• A birthday roast and a look ahead at what the next chapter holds⏱️ Chapters00:00 – Celebrating a milestone: Turning 4004:32 – Childhood memories & early life lessons17:51 – Growth, responsibility & fatherhood26:17 – Resilience, failure & learning the hard way34:00 – Love, marriage & showing up39:05 – Life reflections & unforgettable moments51:50 – Looking ahead: goals, family & what’s next🤝 Thanks to Our SponsorsAnchor Financial Solutions Group, LLC📍 2544 E 10th Street, Tucson, AZ 85716📞 520.620.5320🌐 www.anchorfinancialsolutionsgroup.comHelping families plan, protect, and build financial confidence for the future.Beautiful Sunday Marketing Collective📧 [email protected]📞 520.405.3298🌐 https://beautifulsundaymc.wixsite.com/beautiful-sunday-marSupporting creatives, brands, and storytellers through intentional marketing and design.📌 Support the Show👍 Like💬 Comment🔔 SubscribeYour engagement helps us grow, reach more veteran families, and continue producing meaningful conversations — both at home and in studio.📩 Interested in sponsoring an episode or supporting our [email protected]📱 @HermsHousePodcastSupport the show