Solitude

A famous actress of the 1930s was known for her motto, “I want to be alone,” and she remained an unhappy woman to the end, proving that neither crowds nor solitude can produce happiness. True joy is not found by avoiding people or by chasing them, but by living responsibly before God and in community. As an old French saying observes, “All things can be learned in solitude except character,” for while character is shaped by faith, it grows only as we live with God and with others. Scripture makes clear that sanctification growth in grace, holiness, strength, and peace requires relationship, not isolation. Those who try to escape God, family, and social obligations are fleeing the very context in which life and happiness occur, and it is no wonder that such “free spirits” often fall into deep misery. Life includes responsibility and community; solitude cannot give growth, only death. We may die alone, but we cannot live alone, for God made us part of His world and His people.