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EPISODE · Mar 2, 2026 · 1H 27M

Somatic Sex & Relationship Coach: James Buckley - Non-Monogamy, Jealousy & The Crisis Of Masculine Identity

from The Space Between · host Bevan Pfeiffer

James Buckley is a somatic sex and relationship coach who has spent 17 years navigating non-monogamy, kink, and the messy, complicated terrain of modern masculinity. What does it mean to be a man when you have no male role models? How do you rebuild yourself after your closest friends stage an intervention and force you to confront the worst version of yourself? And why is the manosphere teaching young men that eating pussy makes them submissive? Expect to learn how James went from blacking out for days and drinking mouthwash to five years of sobriety, why jealousy might actually be something to lean into rather than avoid, what Morocco taught him about masculine affection, the difference between envy and jealousy that most people miss, why homo-hysteria is keeping men dangerously isolated, how to have the non-monogamy conversation without making your partner spiral, what happened when James ran a 250-person camping festival for alternative relationships, why the manosphere's version of masculinity is profoundly weak, and much more. This conversation goes deep.   James' Offerings:    Website: https://www.enmaustralia.com.au Instagram : @enm.australia   Bevan's Offerings:    Website: www.theembodiedmind.com.au Instagram: @bevanpfeiffer  

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