EPISODE · Nov 12, 2025 · 22 MIN
Speak for Clarity, Not Control: Emotional Intelligence for Christians
from Shifts and Giggles: Mindset Tools for Real Life Growth · host Rafer Owens, Jr | Mindset Coach | Speaker
Got a question or comment? Send us a text!What if the conversations you’re avoiding are the very ones the Holy Spirit wants to use to change your life? In this episode of Shifts and Giggles, Rafer breaks down the difference between speaking for clarity and speaking for control. You’ll learn how emotional intelligence, honesty, and love work together to create real connection in relationships—with God, yourself, and others. From learning to say what you feel to listening without defensiveness, this episode walks you through what it looks like to speak and listen for clarity in love.If you’ve ever avoided hard conversations to “keep the peace,” this one’s for you.Get the Worksheet Here! https://raferowensjr.gumroad.com/l/S2wrksheet Support the showThanks for tuning in to Shifts and Giggles!If you found this episode helpful, please subscribe, share it with a friend, and leave a review.Have a question or comment? Send it in — it might get featured in our Q&A episode at the end of the season! Follow Rafer on Instagram ---> https://instagram.com/raferowensjr Buy The Simple Shift Book ---> https://a.co/d/8O7xs9R Work with Rafer ---> https://tr.ee/Work_With_Rafer Shift happens on purpose.
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