Spiderman had a pretty good point…

With great power comes great responsibility. A lot of dads feel powerless in their own lives these days, constantly having their decisions swayed by the ever-present needs of their family, their employers or employees, the government etc As men feeling like we have control of our lives is necessary for our mental health and happiness. I think we all want to feel like the captain of our own ship, sailing the people that mean the most to us to new and prosperous destinations. The trouble is you cannot have the power of a man who leads his own way in life if you do not also take on the responsibility of a leader. This means holding yourself accountable for every outcome or circumstance you find yourself in in your life. I hate my job! Becomes: I chose to work for this company in this industry… My kids are always glued to their screens and never play outside! Becomes: I haven’t made it a goal to get them out and about each day/week, and I haven’t prioritised my own energy levels to make that possible… My relationship has lost all passion and excitement! Becomes: I haven’t surprised my wife/partner romantically in longer than I care to mention, and I haven’t been prioritising romance in our relationship at all for a while. You may be reading this and thinking but Mitch you don’t understand! How the hell am I supposed to do all that whilst working full time, raising kids, and just generally trying to keep our heads above water… Dude, I get it… It’s not easy being the captain huh? That’s why a lot dads find themselves feeling like they’re stuck in a cycle they can’t get out of. If that’s you then listen to this episode. Hear me out…