EPISODE · Feb 28, 2024 · 10 MIN
Spouse says I don't want coaching - what you can do
from Turn it Up! Marriage Tips and Tools · host by Kelly DuPée
When your spouse says "I don't want coaching" for our marriage, what do you do? Do you just give up or try to pressure them into getting help? In this episode of 'Turn it Up Marriage Tips and Tools Show', join me as I provide guidance on how to address marriage difficulties when your spouse is reluctant to seek professional help. I make a clear distinction between coaching and counseling, explaining how the former focuses more on developing skills rather than delving into past traumas. I emphasize the importance of respecting your spouse's feelings, enlightening them about what coaching involves, and considering getting coaching by yourself if your spouse remains resistant. Throughout the episode, I highlight several coaching skills like learning to respond instead of reacting, setting boundaries, and active listening. My approach as a faith-based coach also involves inviting God to come heal the relationship. Lastly, I invite listeners to get in touch with me for a free, no-obligation clarity call to begin improving their marriages. 00:00 Introduction and the Problem at Hand 02:33 Understanding the Difference Between Coaching and Counseling 04:36 The Power of Individual Growth in a Relationship 07:04 Inviting Your Spouse to Join the Coaching Journey 08:07 Taking the First Step Towards a Better Marriage 09:41 Conclusion and Invitation for a Free Clarity Call To book your free Clarity Call, go to https://turnitup.coach or call 626-804-1731.
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