Standards vs. Feelings | Preferences, Non-Negotiables & Boundaries

This episode was DEEP. In Episode 4 of the If Not Book Club, we unpack Chapter 4 and officially welcome our first guest of the season—Jazz’s grandmother, Bobbie Durkins. With three generations of women at the table, this conversation became powerful, emotional, hilarious, intentional, and incredibly real.We discuss preferences, non-negotiables, and boundaries—what they are, how they develop, and why standards matter more than temporary feelings. From growing up without a mother, to building boundaries through experience, to raising daughters with wisdom and strength, each generation shares how their experiences shaped the next.This episode is a reminder that healing, standards, and self-worth don’t appear overnight—they’re learned, lived, and passed down.Don't forget to grab your copy of If Not: Making Peace With God's Timing from my website at https://www.jasminestylesconsulting.com/shop-1 and Amazon. We have hardcover, paperback, PDF, and digital. Get your copy today! #IfNotBookClub #Boundaries #Standards #MansGloryPodcast