State of Mind: Leather Boy & Kink Identity

Matthew is the only Leather Boy Titleholder in Australia! Non-binary, rope bunny, self-described BPRC. He tells us why kink can be an identity and not just an activity: finding leather at 18, the difference between the leather boy and rope bunny sides of himself, shibari versus Western rope, and the aftercare nobody talks about, including the aftercare doms need too. He also tells us how he got strung up like a chandelier at a rave, turned to the crowd, and finds eight of his coworkers in the front row, which makes the whole conversation hit differently! In the Deviant Download, Quincy takes on the leather boy: where the "boy" comes from, why it's not about age, and what the flag actually means.Find Matthew on Instagram @Matthew_QLB2025Follow us on:Instagram: instagram.com/deviant.duo.podcast TikTok: tiktok.com/@deviant.duo.podcast