Staying Engaged When the Answer Is “Wait” with Dr. Miki Zilnicki

In this episode, Denise is joined by Dr. Miki Zilnicki for a thoughtful conversation about what parents can do when they’re told to “wait and see” — and how families can stay engaged, informed, and empowered during that waiting period.Together, they explore why waiting is sometimes recommended, what it does and doesn’t mean, and how parents can advocate for their child’s visual development without feeling adversarial or overwhelmed. The discussion also touches on the importance of seeking additional opinions, understanding differences in professional perspectives, and recognizing when it’s appropriate to ask deeper questions.Denise also introduces an emerging idea she’s developing — using music and movement as a supportive, complementary way to help families stay connected to their child’s visual development. While not a replacement for clinical care, this approach reflects Denise’s background in music education and her belief that gentle, rhythmic movement can help parents remain engaged and aware while they’re navigating next steps.This episode is especially relevant for parents who feel stuck in uncertainty, unsure whether to wait, act, or seek additional guidance.Topics CoveredWhat doctors usually mean when they tell parents to “wait”Why children are sometimes considered “too young” for certain interventionsHow parents can stay actively involved during a waiting periodThe role of patient and parent advocacy in vision careWhen and how to seek additional professional opinionsNavigating conflicting advice without losing confidenceWhy awareness and connection matter — even before therapy beginsIntroducing music and movement as a supportive, non-clinical tool for familiesWho This Episode Is ForParents who have been told to “wait and see” and feel unsure what to do nextFamilies navigating mixed messages in vision careListeners interested in patient advocacy and informed decision-makingParents who want ways to stay connected to their child’s development during periods of uncertaintyKey TakeawayWaiting doesn’t have to mean doing nothing. Staying informed, asking questions, and remaining connected to your child’s experience can make a meaningful difference — even before any formal intervention begins.Dr. Zilnicki's website and Vision is more than 20/20 podcast: https://twinforksoptometry.com/vision-is-more-than-20-20-podcast/Questions for Dr. Zilnicki? Here's her email: [email protected] the Healing our Sight Facebook Group here: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100063570817348If you liked this episode, click here to send me a message. I also appreciate guest and topic suggestions.I'd love to hear from you! Click the "If you liked this episode, CLICK HERE" link above to send me a message. Your comments, questions, guest suggestions, and topic ideas come directly to me as Fan Mail, and I read every message.