Still Learning How to Adult by Scott Shafer: Life Lessons, Humor, and Second-Act Courage

What happens when a lifelong introvert decides to share his stories with the world?In this episode of My Friend Writes, Kim Mosiman sits down with first-time author Scott Shafer, whose book Still Learning How to Adult was released in May 2026. Together, they explore the surprising journey from retirement to publication, the courage required to be seen, and why writing can become one of the most transformative practices of a person's life. Scott shares how decades spent working in the insurance industry shaped his empathy, why he began writing simply to remember everyday moments, and what happened when friends and family encouraged him to turn those stories into a book. He opens up about living as an introvert, facing the fear of criticism, navigating self-doubt, and discovering that people are often far kinder than we imagine. Whether you've dreamed of writing a book, are navigating retirement and a new season of life, or simply need encouragement to start creating something meaningful, this conversation is a reminder that you don't have to be an expert to begin. You simply have to start. In this episode, you'll discover:Why writing can be one of the most powerful forms of self-discoveryHow retirement opened the door to creativity and personal growthThe surprising connection between journaling and confidenceWhy waiting to feel "ready" keeps so many people from writingHow sharing your story can encourage others in ways you'll never expectThe value of writing what you know and trusting your own voiceIf you've ever felt the nudge to write, this episode may be exactly the encouragement you need.If you've been waiting for the right time to write, let this be your reminder that writing begins long before publication. It begins with paying attention. Open a page today and write one paragraph about something you don't want to forget. Then come tell us what happened when you started.Read more from Scott and find out how to connect with him at https://www.kimmosimanwellness.com/my_friendwrites/2026/6/10/still-learning-how-to-adult