Stop Asking Your Kid "How Does That Make You Feel", Use This Ancient Kabbalistic Advice Instead

Join the 10 week class- The Soul Map of Parenting here: https://www.efratamira.com/soulparentingWhen your child is hurting, your instinct is to sit with them, validate the feeling, and make them feel seen. And that instinct is right — but it's only half the picture.In this episode I want to show you why staying in the validation moment, without moving past it, can actually keep your child stuck. And what to do instead.We'll explore an idea rooted in ancient Jewish wisdom — that emotions are a powerful life force, and like all light, they need a vessel to shine through. When there's no vessel, the emotion overwhelms everything. When there is — it becomes something your child can actually use.Then I'll walk you through three real situations every parent faces — a bad grade, being left out, sibling jealousy — and show you the exact moves that help your child move from feeling like a victim of the situation to seeing it as information they can act on.Because you can't directly change how your child feels. But you have enormous influence over how they interpret what happened. And that changes everything.00:00 Understanding Children's Emotions06:13 The Power of Interpretation11:40 Navigating Social Challenges14:38 Building Emotional Resilience