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EPISODE · May 29, 2026 · 23 MIN

Stop Asking Your Spouse To Work On The Marriage – Part 1

from Relationship Radio: Marriage, Sex, Limerence & Avoiding Divorce · host Dr. Joe Beam & Kimberly Beam Holmes: Experts in Fixing Marriages & Saving Relationships

Enjoy the episode? Send us a text!Click here to watch part 2! https://bit.ly/4dLDJRuAsking your spouse to work on the marriage isn't working.Because they don't want to work on the marriage. That's the whole problem.Stop asking.Nobody wants more counseling. Nobody wants another conversation about "us." Nobody wants to be handed a printout of what's wrong with them on Halloween night.They need a different reason to walk through the door.In this video, Amber and I break down how to actually get a resistant spouse to a Marriage Helper workshop, even when they've filed, even when there's an affair partner, even when they've already said it's over.The shift:Stop selling the marriage. Find what actually motivates them. Take "us" off the table. Treat it like a business agreement.Your job is to get them through the door. Our job is the next 3 days.That's how marriages get saved, not by convincing your spouse to love you again, but by getting them in the room where the work actually happens.If you're struggling in your marriage, don’t wait. Get our FREE resource: The 7 Steps to Rescue Your Marriage 👉 https://marriagehelper.com/free📞 BOOK A CALL WITH OUR TEAM: https://bit.ly/4fhb9Yz🔗 Website: https://marriagehelper.com📱 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/marriagehelper👀 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@marriagehelperFollow our other channels!📺 https://youtube.com/@kimberlybeamholmes📺 https://youtube.com/@drjoebeam

Enjoy the episode? Send us a text! Click here to watch part 2! https://bit.ly/4dLDJRu Asking your spouse to work on the marriage isn't working. Because they don't want to work on the marriage. That's the whole problem. Stop asking. Nobody wants more counseling. Nobody wants another conversation about "us." Nobody wants to be handed a printout of what's wrong with them on Halloween night. They need a different reason to walk through the door. In this video, Amber and I break down how to actual...

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Enjoy the episode? Send us a text!Click here to watch part 2! https://bit.ly/4dLDJRuAsking your spouse to work on the marriage isn't working.Because they don't want to work on the marriage. That's the whole problem.Stop asking.Nobody wants more...

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