Stop Being So Nice: Boundaries, Red Flags, and Predator Psychology

Predators don't follow social norms, but the rest of us do, and that gap is exactly what gets exploited. This episode breaks down why holding the door, apologizing by reflex, and tuning out with noise canceling headphones can make you an easier target, plus practical ways to get sharper without living in fear: practicing your response, trusting your read on people, and setting boundaries without apologizing for them. We also get into how to spot the signs of a manipulative or controlling partner, what gaslighting actually looks like, how to teach kids body awareness and boundaries, and a lightning round on relationship myths: narcissist exes, love bombing, attachment styles, and trauma dumping. About Dr. Leslie Dobson: Clinical forensic psychologist who does threat assessment, evaluates predators, and works on sexual abuse cases. She testifies in trials and is writing a book on awareness and self-protection. Website: https://drlesliedobson.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drlesliedobson/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@drlesliedobson If you or someone you know is in an unsafe relationship, the National Domestic Violence Hotline is available 24/7 at 1-800-799-7233. Follow along: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jasminewegesq TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@jas_the_lawyer New episodes Mondays at 5am. Subscribe, rate, and share Exhibit A-List to stay updated on new episodes. Stay curious, my friends.